Nouns

(n)badgering, worrying, torment, bedevilmentthe act of harassing someone
(n)worryingthe act of moving something by repeated tugs or pushes“vigorous worrying finally loosened the saw”

Adjectives

(s)distressing, distressful, disturbing, perturbing, troubling, worrisome, worryingcausing distress or worry or anxiety“distressing (or disturbing) news”, “lived in heroic if something distressful isolation”, “a disturbing amount of crime”, “a revelation that was most perturbing”, “a new and troubling thought”, “in a particularly worrisome predicament”, “a worrying situation”, “a worrying time”