Nouns

(n)malice, maliciousness, spite, spitefulness, venomfeeling a need to see others suffer
(n)cattiness, bitchiness, spite, spitefulness, nastinessmalevolence by virtue of being malicious or spiteful or nasty

Verbs

(v)hurt, wound, injure, bruise, offend, spitehurt the feelings of“She hurt me when she did not include me among her guests”, “This remark really bruised my ego”